请记住我们为什么做某事

Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。

Have you ever done that?你曾有过这种经历吗？ #

I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。

I have called someone because I want to tell them something.我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。

And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 #

Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。

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That's a memory problem.这是一个记忆问题。

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I guess that counts too.我想那很重要。

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But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ #

At one point, there was a reason we do something.在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 #

For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 #

It's always could to ask ourselves why.总是可以问问自己为什么。

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Why did I start to learn a language?为什么我开始学习一种语言？ #

Why did I join this club?为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ #

Why my friend was this person?为什么我的朋友是这个人？ #

Why did I get married?为什么我要结婚？

If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 #

I think we need indeed remind us of why.我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。

Or else it's tough to finish what we started.否则很难完成我们所开始的。

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We stop starting. We quit the club.我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。

We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 #

There's nothing wrong with asking why. #

问为什么没什么问题。 #

In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 #

Talk about it.谈论下面的话题：

Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？

Is it a kind of distant memory?它是一种遥远的记忆？

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Did you ever forget why you are doing something...你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… #

How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ #

Do you write memos?你写备忘录吗？ #

Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ #

What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself forgetting?还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？

What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？

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