男性分担家务 婚姻会更幸福

Although no exact formula for marital¹（婚姻的） bliss² exists, a University of Missouri researcher has found that husbands and wives are happier when they share household and child-rearing responsibilities. However, sharing responsibilities doesn't necessarily mean couples divide chores equally, said Adam Galovan, a doctoral student in the MU Department of Human Development and Family Studies. "Sharing can mean something different to every couple," Galovan said. "It could be taking turns changing diapers（尿布） or one parent watching the children while the other prepares dinner. Doing things together and having mutual³, agreed-upon divisions of labor⁴ benefitted both spouses⁵."   Galovan and his Brigham Young University and Utah State University colleagues surveyed 160 heterosexual（异性的） couples to see how the parents divided household responsibilities and how those chores affected⁶ the husbands' and wives' relationships. The couples were married for an average of five years and had at least one child age five or younger. Most of the parents were between 25 and 30 years old, and about 40 percent of the women had full- or part-time jobs.   "The more wives perceived that husbands were engaged in routine family work tasks, the better the relationships were for both partners," Galovan said. "Wives in our study viewed father involvement and participation⁷ in household chores as related. Doing household chores and being engaged with the children seem to be important ways for husbands to connect with their wives, and that connection is related to better couple relationships."   The bonds between fathers and their children also contributed to couples' marital satisfaction, Galovan said.   "When wives felt their husbands were close to their children, both spouses reported better marriages," said Galovan. "The father-child bond was particularly important for wives."   Couples should realize that transitioning into parenthood requires an adjustment period, and it is normal for husbands and wives to feel stressed, Galovan said. To counteract⁸ the stress, he recommends that parents make each other a priority.   "Find ways to connect throughout the day, even if it's just doing dishes together or watching a movie," Galovan said. "These simple connections in daily life seem to enhance couples' marital satisfaction and improve the quality of their relationships."